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今日做完野回家途中同啊二五同埋司機堂講開蒸魚
攪到我都想食魚,所以就真係買左條魚蒸。
哈哈.....好好味worrrrrr......我d自製豉油都唔錯。
家下好~~~飽,想訓個覺。


走之前講多樣野,今朝睇報紙,又見到細路自殺新聞,當然又係為左一d小事啦。
唉,最慘就係呢,個‘專家’geh advice係,“避免過度責罵小朋友。”
我一d都唔認同。其實就係而家d家長成日縱d細路,先會惡性循環甘攪到d小朋友甘脆弱。我眼見唔少家長由得d小朋友想點就點,又話唔打得又剩,我地細個邊會甘架,啊媽啊爸話要打,就乖乖就範,影咩響心理講咩民主呢,細路都未識分好壞就由得拒地亂黎,就係要響呢個年齡教架嘛,到大個左教識晒做人基本禮儀先比拒地做拒地自己決定都唔遲。

我就係一個例子,細個啊媽啊爸都幾嚴,大個就反而由得我做自己決定唔會鵝我呢樣鵝我個樣,我覺得做父母就係應該甘樣啦,細個管教,大個比支持。

我第時都係會甘樣教仔,或人地d仔。哈哈。
今日做完野回家途中同啊二五同埋司機堂講開蒸魚
攪到我都想食魚,所以就真係買左條魚蒸。
哈哈.....好好味worrrrrr......我d自製豉油都唔錯。
家下好~~~飽,想訓個覺。


走之前講多樣野,今朝睇報紙,又見到細路自殺新聞,當然又係為左一d小事啦。
唉,最慘就係呢,個‘專家’geh advice係,“避免過度責罵小朋友。”
我一d都唔認同。其實就係而家d家長成日縱d細路,先會惡性循環甘攪到d小朋友甘脆弱。我眼見唔少家長由得d小朋友想點就點,又話唔打得又剩,我地細個邊會甘架,啊媽啊爸話要打,就乖乖就範,影咩響心理講咩民主呢,細路都未識分好壞就由得拒地亂黎,就係要響呢個年齡教架嘛,到大個左教識晒做人基本禮儀先比拒地做拒地自己決定都唔遲。

我就係一個例子,細個啊媽啊爸都幾嚴,大個就反而由得我做自己決定唔會鵝我呢樣鵝我個樣,我覺得做父母就係應該甘樣啦,細個管教,大個比支持。

我第時都係會甘樣教仔,或人地d仔。哈哈。
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我觉得中国最缺噶就系上代同下代人噶沟通,缺少沟通也就缺少爱~~~~

meowcat
I am a kindergarten teacher so I agree with u in some ways.

The children nowadays are way too spoiled, even when they are less than 2 year old. I find a lot of parents in HK lack parenting skills. Or some of them are too busy so they let someone else take care of them.

The part I don't agree with is beating the children. It happened in our generation and it shouldn't happen now. Children need discipline but not beating. They can be punished and reasoned with, but beating is not a good way.

guest%3Afurn
而家geh時代唔同左la,
如果個細路知道其他同學仔geh父母都好鍚佢地但係自己就成日比啊爸啊媽打同鬧,
佢地反而會自卑諗唔開。
細路好少明白「打你即係鍚你著緊你」呢個道理。

時代換左就要換另一個教細路geh方法,
某時候都未必一定要打同鬧先可以教好佢地geh,
事在人為ga jeh。

加油努力la啊未來契菇媽!

guest%3Atoby
我同你既睇法都係一樣... 而家d小朋友真係俾人錫得太多... 鬧得太少... 當然唔係話要打打鬧鬧先係好啦... 但係如果話兩句都會唔開心到放棄自己生命... 佢第日點樣晌個社會生存?

父母俾個溫室俾自己小朋友既諗法係可以理解... 但係過度保護既話... 佢地就唔可以自行處理問題... 個個人都識講"細路仔唔跌唔識大"na...

我 Daddy Mammy 晌我細個時都好惡對我... 做錯事就會罰企... 打手板... =3=" 細個唔識諗當然會唔開心呀! 但係而家大個左... 先知佢地咁惡對我都係想我好姐... 我仲好慶幸我媽媽係個咁惡既人... =0=!

我諗我第時有小朋友都會好似媽媽咁教... :p

guest%3AJill+Jill+%E2%99%A1
music matters 頂 cap, yahoo 炒到成幾百蚊呀!
不如你出俾我地買啦, 好唔好呀?

janicesp
個細路係我細佬個同學..
聽到個消息之後嚇到我細佬流鼻血 = =

guest%3Asyblaur
wa...........一入黎見到咁多裸男, 搞乜呀!

我超鍾意食魚架, 無論蒸魚, 煎魚同燒魚(最美味既鹽燒多春魚), 都係我至愛! 諗起都想食......

guest%3A%E8%8F%87%E5%A7%90
長話短說, 即係咁, 我認同e+ 有d 細路係應該俾人鬧下俾人打下先知錯... 之但係, 專案係話, 唔好 "過度" 鬧d 小朋友, 我好認同咖BOR.
有時d 大人只不過係嬲過頭, 唔理三七二十一, 係咁鬧係咁鬧, 打橫泥講咁鬧, 其實會好 hurt 個細路仔.
以我為例, 我e+ 大學, 有時同阿媽嘈起上泥, 可以搵番小二o既事泥講, 阿媽話我記仇. 之但係,我又唔係等登去記, 只係好自然咁記晒.... 有時唔開心, 又會好自然咁唸番以前阿媽點打點鬧, 跟住搞到自己更加 down.
所以, 鬧係應該咖, 但要睇人而鬧, 唔可以過份.

estee
i agree totally! i mean, parents these days dont discipline their children at a young age as much, and tht's why they become spoiled when they get older. i mean, when your child has grown up and has his/her own thoughts, it hard to teach them. iam a teenager myself, and i understand. i always felt that children should be children and be taught well, even a little spank on the butt is needed. however, in time of the teens, they should be able to explore and think for themselves, and be responsible for their own actions. all parents should support them and acknowledge that their child has grown up.
-g

gchan
個 layout 好得呀 ~~
個 d 裸男係咩事架呢我想問

celinejill
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